Relationships

Relationships: We all have them. They come in many disguises. We are all aware of our relationships with other people such as our partner, children, friends, co-workers etc but have you thought much about your relationships to food, alcohol, drugs, cigarettes, money, cars, sports, things? Have you really thought what do these things bring to you on an emotional level? Everyone does it. Do you have urges to eat ice-cream to soothe your heart from pain that you think someone (living or not living) else caused. It doesn’t matter what external thing it is but in your mind it serves a purpose.  Are you really wanting, it needing it? Is it a physical need? Is it an emotional need? Is it an avenue for you to feel some kind of satisfaction so you don’t have to look inside yourself and figure out what is it about me that is triggering these feelings, these emotions, this feeling of having to have to have control.  I  know all of us come from the same source. Everyone has a past. I do know the majority of all pain and turmoil stems from deep within. Some of us our consciously aware of it some subconsciously. Think about PTSD. Most people, I think, think of war veterans having PTSD.  I was diagnosed with this. I’m not going to say what from but the event happened many years ago in my childhood. We are human beings. We are spiritual beings living inside a human body. There is no one exempt from worry fear or doubt. Everyone has some form of worry fear or doubt that resides within. Your mind and body are a recorder of literally everything that has been said to you said around you and done to you. Your spirit can set you free. Let your spirit set you free.

Any relationship worth having requires both parties to recognize there own “stuff”. A working harmonious relationship needs to be earned by both sides. We seem to consistently place blame on others any outside circumstance. Blaming criticizing condemning judging demanding thinking we are the ones that are right and the other wrong. Don’t wait for the other person to ‘make things right’.  Start with yourself. Take responsibility with what you do and say. How you react to life. How you treat others. How you treat yourself.  And if you think you cant find it go inside deeper. The answer is always there.  Ask yourself “Why am  I feeling this way? Ask again and again then ask again. It requires a dedicated commitment to you. Change will always be tough. It’s supposed to be. That’s why they call it change. One of the things is to, I think, we are use to change as getting laid off from a job, changing jobs or  sickness or death in the family. But how often do you choose to change your own self in order to become a better person? Hopefully you have someone trustworthy you can go to for guidance. Someone you respect, admire, see as someone you would want to become more like because they exemplify the type of person you desire to become. Just remember to keep in mind your guides/couches are also beings of light that continue to want to grow themselves and they make mistakes sometimes. Love them anyway and forgive them. I am sure they will continue to love and forgive you too when you make a mistake.  I know how hard it can be in the midst of change but when you learn to embrace change you will become a better person…. or not. Ultimately we choose to allow ourselves to become a better person or we choose to hold onto old patterns and beliefs that do not serve us anymore. These old patterns and beliefs  keep us held back in the same ole place. Sometimes I look back and think “How much have I changed?” ” How much more do I want to change?” Where do I want to go from here?  For me I can honestly say my ultimate desire is to have a pure mind and heart. THIS IS BIG! But I am up for it. And that my dears is I believe the most important goal any person can set for themselves. It takes the hardest work because we literally need to change much of everything in order to embrace and know our truth. Our Spirit inside us, that inner being knows all. Listen carefully inside of you and listen to the universe that gives you signs. Look all over the place; in nature, as you stumble through radio signals, TV channels, the birds in the sky, the animals scurrying around, the way leaves fall off of a tree. Pay attention to numbers, letters. The other day V6 269 popped into my head. I havn’t  figured out the meaning behind it yet but I know these numbers and this letter represent something to me.

Till next time thoughts to think on.

In Love & Light

Barbara

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